We all dream of manifesting a life filled with abundance—financial freedom, a fulfilling relationship, that perfect job. But often, as we pour our energy into these desires, we find ourselves hitting roadblocks. The secret isn’t just in focusing on the specifics of what we want, but in understanding the underlying energy behind our intentions. Last week, I received a message from my spirit guides that reshaped my approach to manifestation.
Their insight was a true aha moment—or more like an ohhh, that makes sense—revealing that it’s not about zeroing in on the target, but about aligning with the energy of possibility and inviting in the outcomes that serve our highest good.
It’s more than words: We’re often taught that manifestation is as simple as “thinking it, feeling it, receiving it.” While intention-setting is yes, important, the energy we carry behind our words, emotions, and thoughts plays an even more crucial role. Every desire, no matter how big or small, has a unique energetic signature that carries with it a frequency—one that can either attract or repel what we seek. My guides encouraged me to explore the energy of “inviting possibility” instead of narrowly focusing on a desired outcome.
Shift from expectation to invitation: When manifesting, it’s easy to get hung up on specifics—or to worry that you’re not being specific enough. For example, if you’re seeking a promotion or a new job but are unsure of which path to take, there is power in allowing a broader perspective. Try shifting your thought process to, ‘I am inviting career growth that brings fulfillment, learning, and financial abundance.’ This subtle shift opens doors for spirit to work in your favor, often in ways that are more aligned than you could have imagined.
Creating the feeling of enough: A common struggle in manifestation is the feeling of lack, which can unintentionally create resistance. If you’re asking for financial abundance, but deep down you’re feeling a sense of scarcity, the energy can create a block. True abundance starts with the energy of “enough,” which radiates from a place of gratitude. Take a few moments each day to reflect on what’s already going well, big or small. When you can feel content with what you have, you’re more likely to magnetize more of it.
Practice Gratitude: Start each morning with a five-minute “gratitude grounding” exercise. Close your eyes, place a hand on your heart, and breathe deeply as you think of three things you genuinely appreciate. This simple ritual aligns your energy with a state of appreciation, elevating your frequency to match the energy of abundance.
Feel the energy of what you’re asking for: One of the most profound messages I received from my spirit guides was this: “It’s not about the words; it’s about the energy of your desire.” If you want a relationship, envision how it would feel to share laughter, companionship, and mutual respect with someone. When you match your feelings to the outcome you desire, you start to embody the energy of that reality, inviting it into your life.
Visualize with Emotion: Spend time each day visualizing yourself living out your desired experience. If you’re hoping to manifest a fulfilling job, feel what it would be like to wake up excited for work, to feel valued by your colleagues, and to end each day with a sense of accomplishment. The emotions you cultivate in this exercise will naturally attract the reality you envision.
Invite your spirit guides to help: Manifestation isn’t only a mental exercise; it’s a collaboration with spirit. When we ask for guidance and stay open to signs and synchronicities, spirit becomes an active participant in our journey. My spirit guides often remind me to approach manifestation as a co-creation rather than a demand. This means allowing spirit to play a part in how and when things unfold.
As you work on manifesting, ask your spirit guides to show you a sign when you’re in alignment with your goals. This could be a specific image, word, or symbol that resonates with you. When you see it, you’ll know you’re on the right path. These signs are gentle nudges from spirit, affirming that you’re in sync with your highest purpose.
Manifestation is this beautiful mix between our desires and the universe’s wisdom. By focusing on the energy behind our desires, embracing the present moment, and inviting spirit into the process, we create a space for transformation that goes beyond what we can plan or predict. The next time you find yourself hyper focused on a specific outcome, take a moment to tune into the energy of opportunity. Know that every step forward, every moment of gratitude, and every sign from spirit is bringing you closer to a life that resonates with your truest self. You have everything you need within you to create a life full of possibility—simply by allowing the universe to meet you halfway.